My sorority, like most, was very much focused on scholarship. Let me know if you think of anything else. If you are wondering where the money goes, it goes to the HQ of said frat or sorority, and then it goes to events within the chapter. You don't want shallow 10 minute conversations deciding whether you join our sorority and trust me, the sororities feel the same way. [–]♂ Likes robots more than peopleBlackMathNerd 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children). [–]lovethestars 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (6 children). Sometimes because they don't care enough about the sorority and sometimes for just something stupid. [–]♀wonderfulmeg 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (7 children). Given that both groups are known for putting down alcohol, they’re known more for that than drugs. You are mistaking the idea of the sorority as being a 'social organization.' I’m a dude so my knowledge of how sororities work is limited to what I saw from the outside and what my homegirls have told me, but I’m happy to share that or anything else about the Tulane experience. That is a different level or cruelty mentally and emotionally. That said, it's not a fraternity thing, it's a people thing. Archived. [–]SEC_honey 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children), [–]♂sigma83 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child). You'd have to go through recruitment and do that feels right. You're very welcome! I had a rough semester in a lot of ways so for my sisters to turn their backs on me and kick me out was just the kicker. It's college, you'll be studying anyway. [–]bonscouter 79 points80 points81 points 5 years ago (30 children). Delta Gamma (DGs) is considered a mid-tier sorority almost everywhere across the country. Meetings were on Monday evenings, and any class/tutoring was excused. I ended up just giving up going to meetings and whatnot because I didn't know anyone's name, and it seemed like everyone was getting together and hanging out except for me. That can't be right..." Also I don't know what Labour Day is, and now I am intrigued. Why be in something if you aren't committed? The other girls were nice enough, but I felt like the vibes I got during recruitment were very very different from how things were after I joined. [–]♀croakiee 60 points61 points62 points 5 years ago (32 children). Lots of new friends and we had something to bond over. I would've raised hell if they tried to do that to me. Basically, it's a nice way of saying "They aren't attractive/involved/smart/outgoing/etc." It gave me the best years of my life and I am still active to this day. [–]♂bacondev 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children), I find my engineering fraternity dues of $485 to be a happy medium. Then spring semester of my sophomore year the idea to rush popped into my head. If they want you enough, they might even allow you to join the pledge class late. Unfortunately, that was really the only benefit for me. I don't know how or why, but I just got this urge to rush. Pledgeship is considered among the most difficult at Tulane. Each chapter may have had individual GPA requirements and scholarship programs, but as a whole it was one of the four aspects of my sorority. No using URL-shortening sites. It's intriguing, though (in the way Scientologists and Freemasons are). Out of hair, makeup, and clothes, it was encouraged you had two of the three done if you were in letters. "Chapter" is what greek orgs call their weekly meetings - like state of the Union, but it's the state of the chapter. I will say this: If I rushed again and during recruitment met the same badass women that made me feel special and part of something bigger than myself, I'd grab it by the horns in a heartbeat. I decided to not just do the thing where you become "inactive" - I decided to completely leave the sorority, which was a long and arduous process. Sort of. I don't know about you, but I have personally found that all the hyped up stereotypes about Greek life (especially sororities) that we see in movies, on TV and all over social media are completely and totally true. There was always something to do if I felt lonely. For example my sorority was making sure that if you wore your house letters that you looked presentable in them and not like you just rolled out of bed. --The time commitment wasn't as bad as everyone thinks. I'm curious--what sort of rules were there? They’re chill as fuck and low-key partied as hard or harder than anyone. My "big" and I had nothing in common whatsoever and it felt like she got stuck with me. I fucking loved being regulated. Aw thanks! That was the primary reason I joined- it wasn’t the typical blonde-haired cookie cutter group, who didn’t live up to sorority stereotypes. Close. :), [–]apiroscsizmak 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). Many girls in sororities (including myself), are tired of being labeled the “typical sorority girl.” This stereotype is typically about groups of girls who pay for friends, take pictures in letters, party, sleep around and occasionally do good for the community. [–]brotmuffin 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (10 children). A sorority is like being adopted into a group of friends, [–]inkieblot 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (4 children). [–]♀Vivicurl 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (4 children). Now I have a lot of friends in different houses, so I feel like I know a little bit better what each sorority is all about (though I do know that one sister is not representative of a whole house and to take everything with a grain of salt). Join a sports team if you want friends. What sororities are upper and lower tier? Fairly typical Tulane rich girls that can party. The cost to live in the house was more expensive than the most expensive fancy apartment/dorms on campus, so that was a deterrent (again I could have skirted that by just becoming inactive.) I met my best friends and the only people I still talk to from college just happen to be my pledge sisters. In my third year there was an off campus Halloween camping trip (aka a "Party") and because 7 sisters were going it was labeled a "sisterhood event." For those who have lost someone recently, how are you doing? I hope that if you do rush that it is an awesome experience for you. /r/TwoXSex Depends on the school. It was great feeling like I belonged to something. Its just the linda thing where from the outside looking in you camt really under stand it but from the inside lookin our you cant explain it. /r/hair Best: After leaving college, I've actually been able to connect with other alumni from the sorority, and it's helped me meet people in my career. [–]♀HigHog 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (16 children). [–]rageface11 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago* (9 children). Everything is a bit more familial. Drama: There is a TON of drama in sororities. Although sororities can be time consuming, nothing ever came before scholarship. I'd say this one comes almost directly from the media (hello, Legally Blonde.) They become all your social world, making you as dependent as possible on the sorority, and punish you when you don't bend to the rules, even with economical fines and harassment. Nothing else matters. Some of the houses at my school have a reputation for taking one type of girl and that type of girl only. Yeah that is the case. If you were bored, you could drop by the house and find someone to hang out with. Even if I tried to include myself, they just seemed to talk around me and make lots of inside jokes. It was very informative. We still have an email-base, and send out mass emails with job openings or other great opportunities. This is awesome that you’ve taken the time to do this. I realize this stereotype doesn't apply to all sorority sisters but in this sorority it heavily applied. That’s really not uncommon, and many pledge classes will have at least one slightly older guy. No agenda questions. There is also a correlation between how tough the pledge experience is and how legit the organization is viewed to be. It seems a sorority acts as organized socialization, and in some cases, comes across as rather militant in defining who you are (dress, fines, mandatory participation, affiliation to a group that makes you feel entitled to something due to that affiliation). [–]Morgoltrollord 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children). Also we had to keep our grades above a certain level or else we weren't allowed to participate in things like formals or crush party, even though we still had to pay our dues, and when dealing with depression it was a lot for me to balance and it bugged me. On top of dues, you buy merch and letters and other things as well as paying fines for missing events and stuff like that. No. The biggest knock on their reputation is the combination of the fact that they’re southern, their signature date party (maybe the best of the year and one of the most coveted invitations on campus) is called “Old South,” and that they were founded at a college where Robert E. Lee was the president, leads to people assuming they’re racist. Worst: Fast friendships tend to be superficial. It can be expensive and time-consuming. The payoff to the challenging ones is that you come out the other side incredibly close to your whole pledge class having been through that shit together. Woah hey! My schools Phi Sigma Rho chapter is seriously involved with the social sororities and frats. I mean, they clearly have no bias or hyperbolic nature to them whatsoever. Another friend was in a different sorority and she had similar experiences with being blindfolded and brought to random places. I started out freshman year as someone hating Greek Life. [–]SEC_honey 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children). Greek life is the perfect way to meet all kinds of new people, especially within your sorority. It's enraging. You'll meet lots of interesting people. So I went into rush without even thinking about whether it would actually be a good fit. Solid dudes overall, I just never knew them to mix much outside their circle. /r/oney They party. Rendered by PID 7732 on r2-app-0a130f6add1ce6e70 at 2021-01-09 22:16:14.329471+00:00 running d8cca48 country code: US. Worst case - you meet new people, have at least a few engaging conversations, and learn about sorority life. [–]nebraskamolly22 35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (2 children). There's also a lot of politics within the organization that seemed SO important and now are SO petty I can't believe I even cared. FIJI Islander is their signature party and it’s a good time. 1. [–]ifnotoregon 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children). -Whenever I meet someone who was in the same sorority we have an instant connection. -Meeting people you never would have met otherwise. There will be girls who do that, but you don't have to be one of them. [–]♀GLaDOs18 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). *I was not in what is considered an "Upper-Tier" sorority, so I had to deal with the pettiness which came with that. Also, if they like a kid enough to offer him a bid and he vouches for you, they’ll likely take his word for it. What is a comment that someone made recently (either in general or towards you) that really upset you? I went in thinking I was going to meet some good friends and finally have people to hang out with, and party with of course. These are all examples of hazing, but not all organizations or chapters are guilty of this. [–]♀brittanykay 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (1 child). If it is the historically white, it is different than historically black, latino, or Asian, [–]♂captain_craptain 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (13 children). It was silly. I do have engineering friends in houses so I know it is possible to do both, but I wonder if they feel like they miss out a lot on sisterhood stuff because of it. Do with that information as you will. Get an ad-free experience with special benefits, and directly support Reddit. Girl drama. I really don’t remember much about their parties, but people generally liked them and respected the house. Don't you want to hear both sides of things? Preface, I worked in my university greek life office, so I know quite a bit of what happens as well as from being on campus knowing lots of people in different orgs. --Alumni/Networking! They fine you for not going to events?! I think I speak on behalf of everyone who wants to do greek life at Tulane when I ask you to translate good pledgeship. /r/mommit Wow, this got a lot more of a response than I was anticipating. Questions specifying majority demographics are not permitted. Yup. Theta- Again, didn’t take the whole thing too seriously. I would raise motions in chapter meetings for the president to acknowledge that her choice directly put people into danger and was called in for disciplinary action every week for about 2 months. Just having an education is not enough when you're fresh out of college, every little bit helps give you a leg up. They got kicked off campus for obvious reasons. I'm from a country that doensn't have the greek system. Not every girl has her parents paying her dues. Were jorts and Star Wars the only things that you went your own way on or are you trying not to bring up politics in this post? I memorized my line but said it out of place. But with black, latino, and asain, they don't usually do Rush then you are in. I can honestly say I was never hazed while pledging. If you the conflict is because of school, you're excused. Strength in weak ties. Plus, for things like charity events, how many peoples' social groups are organized enough to plan a charity event? It's definitely been interesting. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. Just a thought. It did impact my schoolwork, but for the positive -- women often wanted to go to the library together and study, so it can be good motivation. It's gotten to the point where if I wear a dress, people ask if there's an occasion... [–]SEC_honey 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children). DGs tend to enjoy a level of respect among other sororities … I can't help but feel that by that point in your life you shouldn't need an external reason to do well. [–]♀cookenuptrouble[S] 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (3 children), I'm not your stereotypical sorority girl either, so I'm glad to hear you still had a positive experience. It wasn't all fun and games- I really enjoyed getting involved with our philanthropic organizations and I will continue to make donations even after I graduate, so it has been a great learning opportunity for me. AEPhi and SDT beef As the two established “Jewish houses” on … [–]dorothy_zbornak_esq 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (7 children), Absolutely. [–]callmeunicorn 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago* (2 children). [–]♂JPLR 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children). I'll pay my $35 dues for my Community Service Fraternity any day of the week. It's petty but it's part of the culture I guess. It really depends on the sorority and the chapter. Clubs work rather well, or just studying partner as well. $200 fine! Some places it is a felony and an automatic 2 years. I've seen English students gang up to do fund-raisers for food banks, sports teams clean parks, lots of other social combinations do good work. Of course, sororitys are very different at different schools. Excellent goals, to be sure, but again, you shouldn't have to rely on stringent regulations and monetary commitments to be a decent person. [–]kovixen 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). I don't believe you're formally penalized, but it's usually extremely frowned upon. I don't understand sororities. So if they messed up they would have to be held responsible. The key point is you’ll have to hustle to meet active members and make a good impression. We had mandatory study hours based on gpa, because education is the priority. Seriously? I look back on my college years and know that they kicked ass because of my time as a part of my sorority. [–]WestCoastBestCoast01 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago* (0 children). [–]FeatofClay 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child). When you go to a party in a sorority, you know everyone there. You're expected to go to things nearly every night of the week. No worries its different for everyone. Chi O got put on social probation while I was there because Theta reported them for a recruiting violation. [–]rageface11 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children). [–]bonscouter 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child). Recently I decided to join a sorority on my campus through COB. You have to pay dues every semester. for some orgs, the process is the exact same nationally (including mine - a latina org). I would not join a sorority again, imo. If you have any other questions about the rush process, pledging, or fraternity life in general, feel free to PM me or whatever. That was until Halloween actually happened. I am an Alum of 2 greek lettered organizations. It was also diverse enough, that each member had something to offer the sorority. Rush when everyone is accepting girls. I don't see myself staying here after graduation. [–]♀YetiYogurt 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (2 children). And forget about missing chapter, bc you're getting a fine AND a lecture for not being "committed to sisterhood", [–][deleted] 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (6 children). You will be told from the moment you decide to rush to not listen to the stereotypes or gossip about the sororities here at Clemson.However, where there’s a rhyme there is a reason and for many clueless freshmen girls it can be a good thing to know a little about the sororities on campus before deciding to become a part of one for the next four years. Most likely a rule like you can't wear your letters (because you represent your sorority as a whole in them) to class if you're looking sloppy. And as a person who served on the executive board, without it the system wouldn't work as well. I had conservative sisters, liberal sisters, moderate sisters- it didn't matter to me. I would like to have guaranteed (and optional) social events to go to that I never have to organise myself, though! Like I can see the positives- the belonging, the community, the networking, the values. In that case honestly you could probably just email their president or show up at the house and say you’re interested and ask what should you be doing, and you’ll likely at least get a shot to meet some of the guys and see what’s up. -My best friend died when I was in college. It was actually very interesting, despite the fact I never go to fancy dinners. Being on e-board made me feel like I had a voice and was a leader. [–]theloniusjaz 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children). But yeah, fines are a thing. Also don't really get anything from networking. Millions of young women will go on to join a sorority during their time in college, but not all of the organizations are created equal; even those with sterling reputations can get mired in scandal. Southerner here, I had to take etiquette classes in high school (private school). It can work against you. As a pledge for her sorority, one of my friends wasn't allowed to speak to anyone besides her family, her roommate, and her new "sisters" until pledging was over. The largest Greek letter sorority for black women, Delta Sigma Theta was founded in 1913 at Howard University—only two months later, the founding sisters participated in … Mine did. Kappa- Pi … You discuss stuff like philanthropy events, upcoming deadlines or "socials", and any other random business. I went through an informal recruitment as a sophomore, and while we have a relatively large greek life, there were only 2 sororities accepting girls. Fairly typical Tulane rich girls that can party. Let’s be honest, when you hear the word “fraternity” or “sorority,” the first thing that comes to mind is not a favorable thought. Some of the better fraternities will already have a large pledge class lined up and won’t be actively recruiting anymore, so you’ll have to move quickly to meet actives and make an impression in the two weeks or so between the start of the semester and formal rush. We have flair for men, women, trans folks, and gender neutral people. Sammy (inactive)- Drugs, crazy people, and more drugs. In fact, we guarantee you've come across these 16 types of sorority girls. I'm not saying that this is a bad thing inherently. How do you form good habits and stick to them? Someone from France here. That really just sounds so ...stupid! Those are like, a staple of warm climate wardrobe. I was in Phi Sigma Rho the national engineering sorority. *It's nice knowing I can go anywhere in the country and have sisters around who I share a common bond with. The line made sense where I said it, but I skipped a couple people by accident. They forced them so sit on a washing machine naked and anything that jiggled they circled with magic marker. [–]♂AskADude 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children). Chapter refers to regular meetings of a greek organization. Well like I said it is different everywhere but I have seen actual investigations and read confessions from pledges (who only ever send them anonymously). ZBT- An incredibly more chill version of AEPi with less of daddy’s money getting thrown around. It was really miserable, exhausting, and isolating but not anything that would kill her. I dislike this generalization. Focus on scholarship. They had a bit of a reputation problem with drugs because they had multiple kids OD (non-fatally) in 4 years..Their signature party, Cowboy Christmas, was always one of the more anticipated events of the year. Speak only for yourself. Always busy. For example, during rush each sister was put into a group and the group was then assigned scheduled time blocs. I remember leaving a strip club early in the morning several times with groups of Phi Mus. So I'm guessing the members came from privileged families ? [–]bellebrita 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (2 children). I went to a woman's college. [–]♀suelinaa 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). And if you dated to wear something that didn't meet their expectations or didn't look expensive, you were publicly shamed. If I miss some event of yours, I'd better not hear about it, much less pay 200 bucks. No specifying majority demographics or excluding minority groups based on demographics. I have made plenty of friends in different sororities and I have friends who are in sororities who haven't made any friends in their sororities. A year and a half later I went alum because I'm starting nursing school soon and it became too much of a financial and time commitment. I go to a pretty small state school, when compared to the other two state schools here. Working closely with HR for 15 years now (in a variety of gov't contracts, public and private companies, global and local) if you went to X-University it 'might' get a eyebrow raise for acknowledging you paid a lot of money for your degree, but, they most certainly do not care about what sorority you were in; they care about your accomplishments, your work history, and what you can bring to the table for the company (and if they can get you in cheaply in some cases). They shoved me in the back and gave no apology for being horrible assholes to someone who just did them a favor. [–]♀Leevamealowen 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). If you aren't motivated to learn and to do your work without being forced into putting in the effort required of you...well, you haven't really learned to be conscientious, because being conscientious means you do the work without being forced to. The most difficult pledgeships are physically and mentally taxing as well as massive time commitments. Here goes: SAE- Similar to Pi Phi and Kappa (the latter being considered their sister sorority) in that they’re fairly standard Tulane rich kids. If you can avoid it by choosing different friends in college, I say do that. I'm graduating in May and no that no matter where I go I'll find a chapter of my organization that will welcome me with open arms. I have the greatest littles and would not trade back my time in my sorority for anything in the world because I wouldn't have met them. Another thing - officially leaving the sorority caused all the girls who recognized me as a former member to give me death glares or completely ignore me on campus which I didn't expect (but should have). [–]inkieblot 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children). I know it varies chapter to chapter and school to school, but a lot of people in this thread are saying its a huge time sink. Fines help incentivize not only attendance and participation, but also to avoid freeloaders who don't contribute to the org. Best: you meet a lot of people. In my experience the ones with dues that high include food, rent, and the social budget. [–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children), Being in a sorority sounds pretty shitty. She had to wear black every day and pretty much be invisible. [–]♂captain_craptain 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children). I find it kind of odd that folks seem to think charity only happens within the Greek system at colleges. I went to a school with a large (but not gigantic) system. Should I be concerned about hazing? It all sounds just a bit too businessy to me, and too restrictive. Talk via PM or start a new thread. I was in one of the top sororities, and one of the biggest nationally. It's an example. My sorority was the only reason I thought seriously about staying at that school. 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